Thursday, November 10, 2011

The Single Story.

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I was about to go to bed when I remembered I had to watch a video of a talk for our Cross-Cultural Communications class tomorrow. At first, I was totally uninterested in listening.  But as the speaker went on, I became immersed in what she was saying.


The talk was all about the danger of the single story. She went on about how we should not just create impressions, perspectives or ideas about a certain subject on the basis of one single story about it. For example, all I hear about Iraq is that they are full of terrorists and that most of them are terrorists and their cities are destroyed and they have no hope. The danger there is that I never get to see the other dimension of the country and the people who thrive there. I do not get to glimpse their wholeness and only digest a chunk and treat it as a full meal. By labeling a subject using the immediate information you gather, you enable yourself to fall into a trap of stereotyping, undue criticisms and half-cooked judgements. She expands this concept with stories of her experiences and her insights on it.

And then she ends with a thought saying that if everyone dismisses the single story, we will have a kind of paradise here on earth. Everything will most likely follow suit in resolution because most misunderstandings, conflicts, disagreements and what not are brought about by labels--by single stories nailed shut to identities. Without these names and descriptives we give each other, we will all be but equals.

She knows it's a long shot and I agree. It's highly impossible for everyone to become so detached to meanings and to labels and to single stories. There will always be concepts of superiority and inferiority. Power will never be phased out. As humans evolve through time, so does their egos. Ego inevitably bloats along with the problems of the world. There's this idea of existing in a world full of advancements (as compared to way back when) that clouds people's minds and further divides the world. Being born to a new generation is like an heirloom and if you belong to a group in the new generation that is far from the immense achievements of Science and Technology or anything that shows a jump away from primitivity, you will instantly be labeled as that and that alone. That is your heirloom and there is nothing you can do about it. You have no power and those who have access to the advancements believe they have the right to boast about it and label everything according to their perception. The single story sticks because people are afraid to lose power and those who don't have the power think they have absolutely no right to voice out their other chapters. It's a highly poisonous cycle that makes the small percentage of the world dominate the whole.

Let's face it, the most powerful only account for so little and one reason why the big chunk cannot move on is because they are forced to stay in place. They are only known for what those in power say they are and that keeps them petrified in their current states. They can change internally but they can never branch out externally. I mean, who controls the media? Who creates speeches about helping the downtrodden and discussing how pitiful their states are? It's always like that for those in power. They describe the ones inferior to them as something to pitied. Which is NOT the case. This is what Chimamanda Adichie also discussed in her talk in the video. Something might be woeful but there must've been a side that was not woeful before. Before you can get to one state, a previous one must have occurred before (argument of order), like for example, the plant has died. Before you can deem it 'dead', it must've been alive before. Same thing with circumstances. Before a country becomes poor, they must've been thriving before. So why stick to single stories? I mean, there's more to a country than its land mass. There's more to a person than his name. Labels should be stripped away completely.

But how?

As said, I agree it's impossible. Saying that a complete paradigm shift to this Utopic idea is possible is probably blasphemous. Am I saying I have no hope for this world? Let's just say that, with tons of enormous mistakes done for the previous decades, the world is still no better off and hope appears to be such a fictitious idea now. For a lack of a better metaphor, it's the unicorn of the present and probably for the days to come. Proper distribution of power is probably needed but it will never happen unless everyone has an open mind. There is no one idea. There is no one rule. And most especially, there is no one story to it all.

If Harry Potter can branch out to 7 stories, what more can a real three-dimensional human being? 

P.S.

If you're interested, here's the video. :)





Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Rise and Shine

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Last first day of school morning. Let's goooo.

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First day of the Last.

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My last semestral break ever ended approximately 58 minutes ago as I write this post.

November 8, 2011 is officially the last first day of classes for me. I'm graduating by March 2012 (hopefully) and I'm kind of scared. I'm not quite sure if I'm ready for the responsibilities and the probable repercussions of my actions. I guess the reason why I am pushing for my own business (see previous post) is because I'm scared I might screw things up for the company I might work for. I know that sounds silly but I do fear I might not be good enough. And also, the feeling of growing older makes me sad. I know it should always be carpe diem but thinking about becoming a full-blown adult is just way intimidating.

|  So scared of growing older. I'm only good at being young.
--John Mayer

And it's not like I'm not excited to graduate, I mean, I am! I've been studying practically my whole life. It's time to leave the walls of schools and go out and try and apply myself (while earning! haha). But a part of me just wants to remain a kid and have someone support me and tell me what to do. I have tasted the reality of corporations when I had my summer stint in a huge telco company and I didn't enjoy it. I did in a sense that I met amazing friends there, but the job? Wow. If that's the real world of corporate jobs, I'm in for a world of pain. It will probably suck the life out of me. I'm already confined to technicalities because of the academe. What more if I'm stuck in a 9 to 5 job?

I know creating a business from ground up is extremely hard. It's harder than actually staying in a stable job. But I think if I do create a business, I'll be keeping my inner child via creativity and also, I'll be in charge of my time! I won't be disappointing anybody if I fail except myself. Having that sole responsibility seems like it will take the pressure off. But then again I realize, that would not present me a sustainable future. Everybody is expected to care for their own sakes--for their own welfare. I guess it's just all about setting your priority straight. My priority if I build a business is not creating a sustainable source for myself but in order to be more in control and not lose myself. But I could lose a lot of money and waste effort. My priority if I take a corporate job is money. I wonder if it's ever possible to find a job you love that provides your soul with bliss and keeps your wallet healthy?

Ahhh. I don't know why my mind is wandering off towards this thought. It's 1 am and I've a 9 am Political Science class. I should be sleeping. The thought of graduating and finding a job just suddenly crossed my mind and scared me out of my wits. Reality bites. But I guess I have at least 4 months until it really chews off a piece.

For now, I have to fix my current state of living and go to bed. Future can wait until my next pondering. Haha. I'll grow up little by little I guess. :)



My very messy sans sheets bed

Monday, November 7, 2011

If you had your own restaurant, what would it be called?

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I love food.

No, love is actually an understatement. Food gives me euphoria. And I know that's exaggerating my fondness for food, but really, food is just one of the things I completely worship. Its existence is more than just for my sustenance, but also for my past-time purposes. (Not that I eat every time I'm bored. Okay. Maybe I do.) I consider food as my past-time because I completely enjoy making food. I experiment in the kitchen for most of my free time because there's something about eating what I made that brings me bliss, especially if other people eat what I concocted! I love creating new recipes. Most of the time, I discover new recipes by mistake (like I was following an existing recipe and I forgot an ingredient or threw in an unnecessary ingredient). But sometimes, those mistakes do not result into something edible. Still, it doesn't bring me down. I still experiment when I have the time and my schedule permits.



This love for eating and cooking is the reason why one of my biggest dreams in life is to create my own restaurant. Well, not really a full-blast restaurant, but more of a cute cafe where people can relax and hang. I'm a fan of desserts and pastries because, not only are they easier to create compared to other heavy meals, but they're also very fun to make! You can manipulate the look of these goodies with colorful icings, decorations and the like. It joins two of my loves: love for designing and love for food. And it's not bad to cater to your sweet tooth every now and then. That is why if ever I had the chance to open up my own food place, I'd offer desserts and pastries along with gourmet sandwiches, coffee, tea and fruit juices! The ultimate dream cafe for me! And I'm planning to name it The Tangerine Cafe!

I don't know why actually. It just sounds nice. I actually suggested it for my sister's old pseudo-pastry business. After I thought of it, the name stuck.


The design I made for my sister's promotional sticker

Of course I might tweak the design if ever I actually push through with this cafe. But for the past few days, I've been badgering my mom about putting up a small business when I graduate. I want it to be a cafe but she wants me to go for franchising an existing business. I'm trying to build the menu and the proposal for the business so I can present it to her. Haha. I'll get back on that soon and maybe post some ideas here.

I hope in the future, this name would materialize.

That's it. :)